Support Groups Reduce Loneliness and Fight Depression

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By: Erin McGinn

After two years of social distancing, many people are having trouble rebuilding their in-person relationships. Even before 2020, 80% of minors and 40% of seniors reported being lonely at least sometimes (Hawkley et al., 2010). For people who already had poor quality social circles, low self-esteem, guardedness, and hypervigilance are frequent aspects of their daily lives. This can cause a cycle of distance which can lead into depression. What can we do for these people? Bring them into honest and communicative support groups. 

Loneliness Differs from Social Isolation

“Social isolation is a state of estrangement, in which social connections are limited or absent. Loneliness… is a subjective feeling of distress, arising when social connections are perceived to be inadequate or unfulfilling” (Matthews et al., 2016). To put it simply, social isolation is the outside condition of having few relationships, while loneliness is a feeling. 

People can have many ‘friends’ and family members but still feel lonely. Just as it is possible for someone to feel disconnected from an unfamiliar sea of people. So, the best way to combat loneliness is to gain several high-quality relationships rather than focusing on gathering the most acquaintances.

The Relationship Between Loneliness and Depression

Loneliness puts people at risk for depression. In Mathews et al.(2016) psychiatrists analyzed, “five consecutive annual assessments of loneliness and depressive symptoms… loneliness predicts increases in depressive symptoms over 1-year intervals, but depressive symptoms do not predict increases in loneliness over those same intervals.”

People with little social support drop out of treatment for depression and relapse more often. However, taking steps to increase social interactions can reduce their symptoms (Cruwys et al., 2013). Traditional therapy does not guarantee patients won’t relapse. Actually, 80% of people will experience more depression after treatment in their lifetime. Even people who received antidepressants and cognitive-behavioral therapy relapse two years later 25% of the time (Cruwys et al., 2013). 

Support groups can help prevent relapse by reducing one of the risk factors of depression, loneliness. People with depression may fall into a cycle of loneliness that worsens their depression, which makes them want to isolate themselves more. It is important that they break this cycle in small ways. One way is for people with depression to join support groups. 

How Support Groups Can Help

For people who have poor support systems, support groups can help people struggling with mental illness to feel heard. People who join support groups can learn several healthy coping strategies, build social networks, learn from role models, overcome the stigma of their mental illness and trauma, and learn about the issue that brought them to the group (Worral et al., 2018). If a group is run well, participants will have equal opportunities to share their experiences and connect with others. When people already share common ground, it is easier for them to make friendships. 

Groups are regulated so they can filter out bullying behavior and people can leave meetings more healthy and hopeful. The regulation of support groups reduces hypervigilance and the perceived threat of negative social interaction, allowing newcomers to relax.

Groups can be specific to a person’s mental health needs outside of depression, like a group that provides tips for students with psychosis or a place for alcoholics to share their journey and support each other to get clean. The Love Story is a great writing support group that helps people process trauma. People in these groups find comradery in sharing and listening to each other’s stories. Since all The Love Story meetings are online, people can join from the safety of their own house.

There are many lonely people today. Because loneliness is a risk factor of depression, people should seek support groups which help them prevent relapses. It is time to put more focus on bringing them into groups of people they can relate to. The Love Story is a good place to connect with others. 

No one is truly peerless. Share your story with people who might understand. 

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Cruwys, T., Dingle, G. A., Haslam, C., & et al.. (2013). Social group memberships protect against future depression, alleviate depression symptoms, and prevent depression relapse. Social Science & Medicine, 98, 179–186. 

Hawkley, L. C., & Cacioppo, J. T. (2010). Loneliness Matters: A Theoretical and Empirical Review of Consequences and Mechanisms. Annals of Behavioral Medicine, 40(2), 218–227.

Matthews, T., Danese, A., Wertz, J., & et al. (2016). Social isolation, loneliness and depression in young adulthood: a behavioural genetic analysis. Social Psychiatry and Psychiatric Epidemiology, 51(3), 339–348.

Worrall, H., Yuan, L., Lloyd, C., & et al. (2018). The effectiveness of support groups: a literature review Publication Details. University of Wollongong.

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